There will be very painful moments in your life that will change your entire world in a split second.
These moments will change you - just like they changed me. They can change you for better. Let them make you stronger, more loving and more compassionate.
Before I tell you my story, I want to share with you one of the most impactful realisations of my entire life: While we don’t always have control over our circumstances, especially those leftover from our childhood, we can change our perception of those circumstances in a way that helps us to move forward powerfully.
This knowledge has allowed me to overcome seemingly impossible obstacles more than once. I share my story with you as both evidence of your innate power and inspiration to live boldly, passionately, and fully.
This may challenge you, but I say this with utmost love - If I could go from feeling so depressed that I didn’t want to get out of bed in the morning to creating the life I have always wanted, then there is no legitimate excuse for you not to overcome any limitations that have held you back from achieving everything you want for your life.
For years, I had so many reasons why I needed to transform my life, but my painful breakup in 2019 became the perfect reason to actually start my journey of healing. I made recovering from this breakup and reclaiming my power my top priority at that point in my life.
Few months later, after waking up every morning with unbearable pain, I decided to stop acting like a victim. I started to understand that I am the only one responsible for my life and my future.
I stopped holding myself back and gave myself permission to powerfully pursue anything I wanted.
I saw it as a challenge instead and decided to adopt this challenge as an opportunity for self-transformation. I made the decision to get past the hurt and move forward with my life.
Instead of continuously suffering, searching for answers, and longing for closure, I decided to embark on a journey of self-growth and create my best possible future. I wanted to willingly move forward.
I got help. I learned. I healed. I grew. I made changes. I committed to doing the inner work.
I decided to work on myself like never before, leading to an incredible journey of self-discovery and personal transformation that would forever change me.
As I started envisioning mastering myself and my future, my perceptions of what was possible for me, my life began to change.
I soon fell in love with self-transformation, and thus began my journey to healing and wholeness.
This journey of metamorphosis was anything but easy. I shed a lot of tears. But every time I cried, I comforted myself. I somehow managed to tell myself that the tears flowing were cleansing my heart, so every time I cried, I knew I was closer to healing my heart.
My fascination with self-growth and self-transformation, helped me to find my higher purpose and deep passion - human healing.
I wanted to be an inspiration to people: I wanted someone to look at me and say “Thanks to you, I didn’t give up.”
Self-transformation was not just about changing myself: it was about shifting myself to an entirely new perception. I learned that my foremost responsibility was to love myself and to know that I am enough.
Now, I look back with immense gratitude for the incredible gifts that time bestowed upon me. It instilled in me a deep trust that the universe did actually have my back and a greater plan for my future. through what were most definitely my darkest hours.
I would do all of this over again in a heartbeat, just to experience again the incredible insights and growth I gained on this journey.
Without this painful experience, I may not have discovered my spiritual path, and may not have had the opportunity to develop into the person that I am today.
I know this transition was not about becoming someone better, but about finally allowing myself to become who I have always been. Most of the time, we get to know ourselves and find our life purpose in pain or suffering. It’s true.
Without my pain, you would not be reading this lines, which I hope will be a great inspiration and help you discover that there is an opportunity for transformation and growth in every disappointment.
Everything you want is one the other side of fear.
You are strong. You are brave. And you are ready. To walk through your fear. Nothing happens to you. Everything happens to you. Everything happens from you. Through you. For you.
Don’t be afraid to dream big. You can have it all.